解:
(1) 设直线$l$对应的函数解析式为$y=mx+n\ (m≠0)。$
$\because$ 直线$l$与$x$轴交于点$A(6,0),$与$y$轴交于点$B(0,-6),$
$\therefore \begin{cases}6m+n=0,\\n=-6,\end{cases}$ 解得$\begin{cases}m=1,\\n=-6.\end{cases}$
$\therefore$ 直线$l$对应的函数解析式为$y=x-6。$
(2) 设抛物线对应的函数解析式为$y=a(x-h)^2+k\ (a≠0)。$
$\because$ 抛物线的对称轴是直线$x=1,$$\therefore y=a(x-1)^2+k。$
$\because$ 抛物线经过点$A,B,$$\therefore \begin{cases}25a+k=0,\\a+k=-6,\end{cases}$ 解得$\begin{cases}a=\frac{1}{4},\\k=-\frac{25}{4}.\end{cases}$
$\therefore$ 抛物线对应的函数解析式为$y=\frac{1}{4}(x-1)^2-\frac{25}{4}。$
(3) $\because A(6,0),B(0,-6),$$\therefore OA=OB=6。$
在$△ AOB$中,$∠ AOB=90°,$$\therefore ∠ OAB=∠ OBA=45°。$
$\because PC⊥ x$轴,$PM⊥ l,$$\therefore ∠ PCA=∠ PMD=90°。$
在$\mathrm{Rt}△ ADC$中,$\because ∠ PCA=90°,$$∠ OAB=45°,$$\therefore ∠ ADC=45°,$$\therefore ∠ PDM=∠ ADC=45°。$
在$\mathrm{Rt}△ PMD$中,$\because ∠ PMD=90°,$$∠ PDM=45°,$$\therefore PM=\frac{\sqrt{2}}{2}PD。$
$\because y=\frac{1}{4}(x-1)^2-\frac{25}{4}=\frac{1}{4}x^2-\frac{1}{2}x-6,$
设$P(t,\frac{1}{4}t^2-\frac{1}{2}t-6)\ (0<t<6),$则$D(t,t-6)。$
$\therefore PD=t-6-(\frac{1}{4}t^2-\frac{1}{2}t-6)=-\frac{1}{4}t^2+\frac{3}{2}t=-\frac{1}{4}(t-3)^2+\frac{9}{4}。$
$\because -\frac{1}{4}<0,$$\therefore$ 当$t=3$时,$PD$长有最大值,为$\frac{9}{4},$此时$PM$长有最大值,$PM=\frac{\sqrt{2}}{2}PD=\frac{\sqrt{2}}{2}×\frac{9}{4}=\frac{9\sqrt{2}}{8}。$
当$t=3$时,$\frac{1}{4}t^2-\frac{1}{2}t-6=\frac{1}{4}×9-\frac{1}{2}×3-6=-\frac{21}{4},$$\therefore P(3,-\frac{21}{4})。$
综上,$PM$长的最大值是$\frac{9\sqrt{2}}{8},$此时点$P$的坐标为$(3,-\frac{21}{4})。$