$3.解:因为\dfrac{x-a-b-c}{d}+\dfrac{x-a-b-d}{c}+\dfrac{x-a-c-d}{b}+\dfrac{x-b-c-d}{a}=4$
$所以 \dfrac{x-a-b-c}{d}+\dfrac{x-a-b-d}{c} +\dfrac{x-a-c-d}{b}+\dfrac{x-b-c-d}{a}-4=0$
$所以\dfrac{x-a-b-c}{d}-1+\dfrac{x-a-b-d}{c}-1+\dfrac{x-a-c-d}{b}-1+\dfrac{x-b-c-d}{a}-1=0$
$所以\dfrac{x-a-b-c-d}{d}+\dfrac{x-a-b-d-c}{c}+\dfrac{x-a-c-d-b}{b}+\dfrac{x-b-c-d-a}{a}=0$
$所以(\dfrac{1}{a}+\dfrac{1}{b}+\dfrac{1}{c}+\dfrac{1}{d})(x-a-b-c-d)=0$
$因为a,b,c,d是正数$
$所以\dfrac{1}{a}+\dfrac{1}{b}+\dfrac{1}{c}+\dfrac{1}{d}≠0$
$所以x-a-b-c-d=0$
$所以x=a+b+c+d $