解:$(1)$合格的$500\ \mathrm {mL}$的$50°$白酒中酒精的体积$V_{酒精}=500\ \mathrm {mL}×50\%=250\ \mathrm {mL}=250\ \mathrm {cm}^3,$
酒精的质量$m_{酒精}=ρ_{酒精}\ \mathrm {V}_{酒精}=0.8\ \mathrm {g/cm}^3×250\ \mathrm {cm}^3=200\ \mathrm {g},$
白酒中水的体积$V_{水}=V-V_{酒精}=500\ \mathrm {cm}^3-250\ \mathrm {cm}^3=250\ \mathrm {cm}^3,$
水的质量$m_{水}=ρ_{水}\ \mathrm {V}_{水}=1\ \mathrm {g/cm}^3×250\ \mathrm {cm}^3=250\ \mathrm {g},$
白酒的平均密度为$ρ=\frac {m_{酒精}+m_{水}}{V}=\frac {200\ \mathrm {g}+250\ \mathrm {g}}{500\ \mathrm {cm}^3}=0.9\ \mathrm {g/cm}^3=0.9×10^3\ \mathrm {kg/m}^3;$
$(2)$设白酒中酒精的体积为$V_{酒精},$则水的体积为$V-V_{酒精},$
酒精的质量为$ρ_{酒精}\ \mathrm {V}_{酒精},$水的质量为$ρ_{水}(V-V_{酒精}),$
白酒的质量为$ρ_{酒精}\ \mathrm {V}_{酒精}+ρ_{水}(V-V_{酒精})=m_{白酒},$
即:$0.8\ \mathrm {g/cm}^3×V_{酒精}+1\ \mathrm {g/cm}^3×(500\ \mathrm {cm}^3-V_{酒精})=455\ \mathrm {g},$
解得:$V_{酒精}=225\ \mathrm {cm}^3,$
白酒的实际度数为$\frac {V_{酒精}}{V}=\frac {225\ \mathrm {cm}^3}{500\ \mathrm {cm}^3}=45°<50°$
由此可知被抽查白酒的实际度数没有达到其标注的度数;
$(3)$设白酒的体积为$V,$则白酒中酒精的体积为$\frac {TV}{100},$水的体积为$V-\frac {TV}{100},$
白酒的质量为$ρ_{白酒}\ \mathrm {V},$白酒中酒精的质量为$ρ_{酒精}\frac {TV}{100},$水的质量为$ρ_{水}(V-\frac {TV}{100}),$
由质量关系得:$ρ_{酒精}\frac {TV}{100}+ρ_{水}(V-\frac {TV}{100})=ρ_{白酒}\ \mathrm {V},$
整理得:$T=\frac {100(ρ_{水}-ρ_{白酒})}{ρ_{水}-ρ_{酒精}}.$